Judgments are Useless

Imperfections, flaws, failures, mistakes and everything. That's what others notice about you. When you do wrong, they'll say Oh my gosh! You messed up everything! or You're useless!  You did not do anything at all!  

I know how it feels to be judged by other people who does not even see the good things you've done for them. It's kinda like you're being sucked into a super massive black hole and everything inside you feels...dark. You feel like you want to disappear and live inside a world all by yourself. But, look into the brighter side! Maybe they just do that because they're insecure.

You know, before you go into a corner and cry all day long, look at yourself in the mirror.  Know your flaws. Accept that you are not perfect. Well, nobody is. Find a way to make that imperfection your strength. Look at yourself again and think What are the good things in me? Build your self-esteem again! That would really help a lot. Then, put a smile on your face and say "I have mistakes and I'm proud of 'em!"

The people's judgments are useless. Do you know why? There are just things that are present in you but not in them, that's why they pull you down so they can make themselves go all the way up. They do it to make themselves feel that they're better than you. But of course, never do the same thing. Never hurt others.

So, don't listen to anyone's negative judgments about you. They're just insecure and all. Stand up tall! Never let them pull you down! Don't let anyone interfere in your way to make yourself better. They can't help you. It's your life, not theirs.

LESSONS LEARNED :D

** Think of other people's feelings.

** Try to think of the consequences before you do something.

** THINK before you blurt out.

** Never abuse your friends' patience and understanding. They may boil up too.

** Treasure every second spent with your loved ones.

** You can't get everything you want.

** It's takes a long time to find true friends, but it only takes a second to destroy friendship.

** Trust on your own abilities, nothing's impossible if you believe in yourself.

** Time can't be put to rewind, so make the right decisions.

** When something made me MAD, maybe I should keep it to myself and not to blame others of what had happened.

** No matter how good a person is, time will come that they may also hurt you. But try to forgive them. Your relationship with that person won't strengthen if there would be no problems that will come in your lives that will make you know more about each other.

** True friends are really there when you need help in finding the real you.

** Don't say that your life is f****ing miserable. You won't grow up unless you'll get into messy situations.

** THE WORLD DOESN'T REVOLVE AROUND YOU. So stop the drama.

** Every little bit of your PAST SHOULD BE FORGOTTEN. Only bring the lessons learned in the present. ENJOY the PRESENT and explore. EXPECT A BETTER YOU in the FUTURE.

WALA LANG!

My to-do list na hindi maaring gawin:

- Gumawa ng sariling kanta na walang sense

- Sumayaw kahit walang music.

- Gumawa ng sariling music video na hairbrush ang gamit na mic.

- Manghuli ng bangaw.

- Kausapin ang sarili.

- Makipaglaro sa ipis.

- Makipag-usap sa daga.

- Umakyat sa bubong at sumayaw.

- Kumanta ng malakas sa labas ng bahay.

- Magpanggap na baliw.

- Kumain ng alikabok.

- SUMINGHOT ng ALIKABOK

- Mag-imbento ng pagkain at kainin ito at obserbahan ang side epeks nito.

- Kumain ng sili.

- Makipagkwentuhan sa alagang pusa/aso










Retarded ang gumawa nito...

Random things about me. :]

>>Not all the people who read books are nerds. Bookworms are different form nerds. Nerds are the people who are study conscious. They always study. While bookworms are the people who likes to reaD books all the time, different kinds of books, but mostly novels. READING is different from STUDYING. Get it? I'm a bookworm but I'm not a nerd.

>>Having bangs doesn't mean the person is emo. Maybe they have bangs to cover up their wide forehead or something. (Like me..Some people told me I'm emo. NO IM NOT! I JUST HATE MY FOREHEAD THAT'S ALL! AND HEY! MOST OF THE TIME I LAUGH LOUD, SO AM I EMO???? I HATE EMOS!)

>>Writing deep words or difficult words doesn't mean you're also emo. Maybe they just like to use difficult words to widen their vocabulary. Some people are really judgmental. So I ask you, ARE POETS EMO?? DUH! Wake up stupid people!!!

>>That doesn't mean that I ignore you means that I'm snob. It's just that I'm shy to interact with other people and I'm not good at opening conversations. SO if you really want to talk to me, open up your own topic. Capisce?

>>They say that I'm mean. Yes, that's partially true but know me deeper and you'll know how good I am.

>>Other people are afraid to befriend me. I dunno why. Am I really that ugly? 

>>Other say that it's hard to talk to me. Just try and talk to me and you'll know how humorous I am. 

I just wanna share. teehee!

★Confused★

Knowing that one of your friends crushing on you is kinda awkward. Awkward in the fact that you can't believe that your friend already felt that way without even knowing And because of that, you'll act weird when you're with each other. The old treatment has faded.   I miss those days when we laugh and make fun of each other.I miss those days when we talk about things with no sense. I get jealous when he jokes around with other people. The thing that's in my mind if he makes fun of people is 'hey, where's the old you who I can laugh with? Are we still friends?' 

Life May turn Out Great

Life is a roller coaster

Life is full of twists and turns

Life may be sweet, may be bitter

But all of these are just part of "the adventure"

We may experience ups and downs

Because of confusions, our soul drowns

Life is just a mixture of good and bad

Let's just appreciate all the things we had

Life is a checkered sun and shadow

Never think everything we've gone to has no tomorrow

Everything happens for a reason,

Be wise, use life's lessons for us to be better persons

Frustrated Feelings

Have you ever felt this addictive feeling? You're liking someone. You like their crooked smile, how they talk, how they fool around? Everytime we see that certain someone, it's like our hearts would want to jump out off our chests. We blush when that someone would pass around. Sometimes, we want to stare at them for hours. This crazy feeling is what we call CRUSHING.

Having a crush can really distract you any time of the day. It may interfere with your studies because you always think of someone during class discussions. ( kinsa ang naigo??) It may also affect our attitudes and appearance because we always want to look best in front of our crushes. We don't want to be humiliated in front of them and because of that, we change and conceal our true self. But I'm not saying that crushing is bad for us.

In fact, studies show that having a crush also lets your blood circulate better. How? Well, do you notice that sometimes you blush when your crush is around and your heart beats faster? Because of it, your body distributes blood faster. I mean, how cool is that? You can also perform better at school (it depends on how you do it) because there is someone that inspires you to perform better. Look on the brighter side people! Crushing is not that bad!


Well me, I'm currently having this same feeling too. I know most of us teenagers are crushing.  Let me tell you some things about my crush. Well, he's just my schoolmate. We're close friends. He's funny, He's smart, HE'S CUTE(for me),  he always makes me laugh and smile. He's there when I need someone to lean on. He's confident. He's just...PERFECT. I really like the way how he talks to me. I don't know, but when he approaches, I feel sparks. Oh, he's just...PERFECT.

Now, let's talk the other side of the road. Love is different from crushing. When you talk about love, you talk about being together until the end of your lives. You are talking about commitments, loyalty, trust and patience.You are talking about a deeper part, and the most hurting part. Sometimes, when we love someone, we really can't avoid being hurt. So if you're not ready for this LOVE ZONE, try to have a farther distance from it. But IF POSSIBLE, run away from love. We're still too young to get inside this part. In this critical stage of our life, we'll always end up being heartbroken, trust me.

I hope you've learned a lot about this blog. Just remember, no matter what we feel, just don't go beyond our limits. You're still TOO YOUNG to get serious in things that are connected to love. Try to balance everything, okay? Expecting for too much will just hurt you. ♥