Judgments are Useless

Imperfections, flaws, failures, mistakes and everything. That's what others notice about you. When you do wrong, they'll say Oh my gosh! You messed up everything! or You're useless!  You did not do anything at all!  

I know how it feels to be judged by other people who does not even see the good things you've done for them. It's kinda like you're being sucked into a super massive black hole and everything inside you feels...dark. You feel like you want to disappear and live inside a world all by yourself. But, look into the brighter side! Maybe they just do that because they're insecure.

You know, before you go into a corner and cry all day long, look at yourself in the mirror.  Know your flaws. Accept that you are not perfect. Well, nobody is. Find a way to make that imperfection your strength. Look at yourself again and think What are the good things in me? Build your self-esteem again! That would really help a lot. Then, put a smile on your face and say "I have mistakes and I'm proud of 'em!"

The people's judgments are useless. Do you know why? There are just things that are present in you but not in them, that's why they pull you down so they can make themselves go all the way up. They do it to make themselves feel that they're better than you. But of course, never do the same thing. Never hurt others.

So, don't listen to anyone's negative judgments about you. They're just insecure and all. Stand up tall! Never let them pull you down! Don't let anyone interfere in your way to make yourself better. They can't help you. It's your life, not theirs.

LESSONS LEARNED :D

** Think of other people's feelings.

** Try to think of the consequences before you do something.

** THINK before you blurt out.

** Never abuse your friends' patience and understanding. They may boil up too.

** Treasure every second spent with your loved ones.

** You can't get everything you want.

** It's takes a long time to find true friends, but it only takes a second to destroy friendship.

** Trust on your own abilities, nothing's impossible if you believe in yourself.

** Time can't be put to rewind, so make the right decisions.

** When something made me MAD, maybe I should keep it to myself and not to blame others of what had happened.

** No matter how good a person is, time will come that they may also hurt you. But try to forgive them. Your relationship with that person won't strengthen if there would be no problems that will come in your lives that will make you know more about each other.

** True friends are really there when you need help in finding the real you.

** Don't say that your life is f****ing miserable. You won't grow up unless you'll get into messy situations.

** THE WORLD DOESN'T REVOLVE AROUND YOU. So stop the drama.

** Every little bit of your PAST SHOULD BE FORGOTTEN. Only bring the lessons learned in the present. ENJOY the PRESENT and explore. EXPECT A BETTER YOU in the FUTURE.

WALA LANG!

My to-do list na hindi maaring gawin:

- Gumawa ng sariling kanta na walang sense

- Sumayaw kahit walang music.

- Gumawa ng sariling music video na hairbrush ang gamit na mic.

- Manghuli ng bangaw.

- Kausapin ang sarili.

- Makipaglaro sa ipis.

- Makipag-usap sa daga.

- Umakyat sa bubong at sumayaw.

- Kumanta ng malakas sa labas ng bahay.

- Magpanggap na baliw.

- Kumain ng alikabok.

- SUMINGHOT ng ALIKABOK

- Mag-imbento ng pagkain at kainin ito at obserbahan ang side epeks nito.

- Kumain ng sili.

- Makipagkwentuhan sa alagang pusa/aso










Retarded ang gumawa nito...

Random things about me. :]

>>Not all the people who read books are nerds. Bookworms are different form nerds. Nerds are the people who are study conscious. They always study. While bookworms are the people who likes to reaD books all the time, different kinds of books, but mostly novels. READING is different from STUDYING. Get it? I'm a bookworm but I'm not a nerd.

>>Having bangs doesn't mean the person is emo. Maybe they have bangs to cover up their wide forehead or something. (Like me..Some people told me I'm emo. NO IM NOT! I JUST HATE MY FOREHEAD THAT'S ALL! AND HEY! MOST OF THE TIME I LAUGH LOUD, SO AM I EMO???? I HATE EMOS!)

>>Writing deep words or difficult words doesn't mean you're also emo. Maybe they just like to use difficult words to widen their vocabulary. Some people are really judgmental. So I ask you, ARE POETS EMO?? DUH! Wake up stupid people!!!

>>That doesn't mean that I ignore you means that I'm snob. It's just that I'm shy to interact with other people and I'm not good at opening conversations. SO if you really want to talk to me, open up your own topic. Capisce?

>>They say that I'm mean. Yes, that's partially true but know me deeper and you'll know how good I am.

>>Other people are afraid to befriend me. I dunno why. Am I really that ugly? 

>>Other say that it's hard to talk to me. Just try and talk to me and you'll know how humorous I am. 

I just wanna share. teehee!