Frustrated Feelings

Have you ever felt this addictive feeling? You're liking someone. You like their crooked smile, how they talk, how they fool around? Everytime we see that certain someone, it's like our hearts would want to jump out off our chests. We blush when that someone would pass around. Sometimes, we want to stare at them for hours. This crazy feeling is what we call CRUSHING.

Having a crush can really distract you any time of the day. It may interfere with your studies because you always think of someone during class discussions. ( kinsa ang naigo??) It may also affect our attitudes and appearance because we always want to look best in front of our crushes. We don't want to be humiliated in front of them and because of that, we change and conceal our true self. But I'm not saying that crushing is bad for us.

In fact, studies show that having a crush also lets your blood circulate better. How? Well, do you notice that sometimes you blush when your crush is around and your heart beats faster? Because of it, your body distributes blood faster. I mean, how cool is that? You can also perform better at school (it depends on how you do it) because there is someone that inspires you to perform better. Look on the brighter side people! Crushing is not that bad!


Well me, I'm currently having this same feeling too. I know most of us teenagers are crushing.  Let me tell you some things about my crush. Well, he's just my schoolmate. We're close friends. He's funny, He's smart, HE'S CUTE(for me),  he always makes me laugh and smile. He's there when I need someone to lean on. He's confident. He's just...PERFECT. I really like the way how he talks to me. I don't know, but when he approaches, I feel sparks. Oh, he's just...PERFECT.

Now, let's talk the other side of the road. Love is different from crushing. When you talk about love, you talk about being together until the end of your lives. You are talking about commitments, loyalty, trust and patience.You are talking about a deeper part, and the most hurting part. Sometimes, when we love someone, we really can't avoid being hurt. So if you're not ready for this LOVE ZONE, try to have a farther distance from it. But IF POSSIBLE, run away from love. We're still too young to get inside this part. In this critical stage of our life, we'll always end up being heartbroken, trust me.

I hope you've learned a lot about this blog. Just remember, no matter what we feel, just don't go beyond our limits. You're still TOO YOUNG to get serious in things that are connected to love. Try to balance everything, okay? Expecting for too much will just hurt you. ♥